instead of “I love you no matter what sexuality/race/gender you are!”
try “I love you and will celebrate your identity with you!”
Just trying to figure out how to become Oroma Elewa
it pisses me off so much when people are like ‘you don’t need labels, just be yourself!’
did you have to pull yourself apart in order to figure out what the fuck was wrong with you and why you weren’t like everyone else?
Grow/ Let Go.
Grow: explore, learn, evolve, practice, be curious.
Let go: don’t worry so much, heal, take a nap, enjoy the ride.